Snapchat Snap Map showing Bitmoji avatars and heat map, illustrating teen location sharing and peer surveillance in social media.

How Constant Surveillance Shapes Teen Anxiety and Identity

How Constant Surveillance Shapes Teen Anxiety and Identity

Growing Up in a World of Constant Observation When I was a teenager, I had a lot of breathing room between me and my academic mistakes. A bad report card or progress report arrived every six or so weeks. A bad grade on an otherwise good report card was hidden...
I Love My Teen, So Why Do They Still Feel Inadequate?

I Love My Teen, So Why Do They Still Feel Inadequate?

You probably give your child more love, encouragement, and intentional awareness than you yourself ever received growing up. You read the parenting books and listened to the podcasts. You watch the TED Talks and have talked to your therapist about all the ways you...
The Misty Forest: A Symbol for Therapy and Transformation

The Misty Forest: A Symbol for Therapy and Transformation

In my San Diego therapy office sits a landscape painting of a misty, shadowed forest. It hangs directly over my right shoulder, so when clients look at me, it’s always there in the background. The rest of the office is much brighter. Two of my favorites are framed...